
Reasons to say yes:
- I am gay, and this should not make the news, only if people today were more normal; my life is “normal”, it’s not like I am trying to get into every man’s pants, or corrupt little boys
- I am living with someone I love for three years now, and we are likeable and sociable
- it’s about time somebody takes a stand to say normal things about gays in Romania; I think I know what should be said
Reasons to say no:
- I have no idea how this will impact my work, but I have reasons to suspect that it won’t improve it (I should talk to my boss about this one, anyway)
- my bf is not out to his family yet
- my personal life is my personal life, once I waive this right there is no telling
… I have been approached by a friend to appear in a TV news feature related to the study that says Romanians prefer thieves to homosexuals as their neighbours…
What do you think?


Another morning fills the space like a riddle that has to do with my bed, my sleep, my closed eyes. It’s me, the empty carcass, talking and mending things, getting them back in line, just to suck their energy and mine in the process. Another morning like a final verdict. It is as usual the judge who wins and he calls this a win-win situation. Hence I will soon get out of bed and back in my own line.


As I was posting
my new pics of Istanbul, M called: “Stop browsing the Internet and move your ass to the office”. I indeed was doing just that and will be doing as she says. Soon.
